Questions can be addressed one per month, one section per quarter, etc., based on Group Conscience vote.
We remember to place principles before personalities, and aim for progress not perfection.It is important for meetings to stay healthy and fresh. Just as individual COSA members benefit from a regular sobriety check-in or inventory, so do meetings. Conducting a group inventory will help group members bring unresolved issues to the group for discussion and identify areas where the meeting can grow.
As a means of helping each group conduct an inventory, the following questions may be used to identify what needs to change, but also remember to celebrate what is working. As with all meetings and Group Conscience discussions, we practice Safe Communication and honor the input of each member of the group. We pay careful attention to the Twelve Traditions when conducting a group inventory.
COSA individual recovery depends in large part upon the support of a healthy, Higher Power-directed group. While taking inventories we are honest about only our own defects of character; acceptance that “the problem” is within ourselves, without blaming others.
Dynamics Within Our Group
1. Are our members respectful of each other? (Please refer to the COSA Guidelines for Safe Communication*. Are we all invited to participate in the meeting and also in the Group Conscience decisions?
2. Are we a fellowship of equals? Are some looked to as COSA experts? What might be some ways to avoid imbalance or dominance in the group?
3. Do we share experience, strength, and hope or do we engage in advice-giving or crosstalk? (Crosstalk means talking to, talking about, or talking with someone else during the meeting.) If the latter is true, how might we redirect our group toward healthy communication?
4. Are newcomers given a warm welcome and an introduction to the program and COSA literature? Do we make COSA literature available at the meeting?
5. Are our members working the Steps? If not, can we identify some ways to encourage this?
6. Are our members aware of and able to apply the Traditions? If not, can we identify some ways to encourage this?
Behaviors/Skills of Individuals Outside the Group
7. Do we focus on our own recovery or do we spend a lot of time talking about the addict? What are some ways to stay solution-oriented?
8. Do we know and honor the principles of anonymity? Do we actively and respectfully listen to one another?
9. Do we use phone/email lists? Do we have a way of staying connected and supporting one another between meetings?
10. Are members willing to be involved in service at the group level and beyond? Do we have a Delegate?
Relationships to Other COSA Groups
11. Does our group belong to an Intergroup and actively participate? If not, would we benefit from connecting with other COSA groups?
12. Is our group honoring the Seventh Tradition and supporting our meeting group financially? Do we also donate to the ISO of COSA which provides our materials, literature, support, and convention? Is our group staying connected with the ISO of COSA?