Meeting Schedule
Prior to attending your first COSA meeting please tell us why you feel COSA is right for you.
Before Attending Your First Meeting Please Read the COSA ZOOM Room Guidelines:
To keep the COSA Zoom Room safe, we COSAs:
- Mute our microphone unless sharing or when asked to unmute by the Lead.
- Are aware certain attire may be triggering for others and dress accordingly.
- Stay attentive, avoid cell phone use/texting, minimize distracting movements, eating, etc.
- Consider using ear buds if another person around us is able to hear anything. Meetings are private and anonymous.
- We make sure that we are the only person others in the meeting can see and that meeting participants are only visible to us.
- Keep our video on. We make a visual and verbal introduction when entering the room for the safety of others. When possible, we inform “Everyone” in the chat box as a courtesy to the group if we must turn off our video.
- Communicate any barriers at the beginning of the meeting. For example, if our home has people or activities going on, we may have to suddenly stop our video.
- Make a habit of arriving on time and staying for the entire meeting.
- To keep meetings healthy, we do not refer to specific acting out places, people, or behaviors, but rather speak in general terms and refer to how we feel. It is most helpful when members focus on the tools of the program, including the Steps, Traditions, and slogans. It is part of the trusted servant’s role and everyone’s responsibility to gently speak up if someone shifts away from these guidelines.
- Share our own experience, strength, and hope (ESH) with the group, speaking in “I” terms (rather than using ‘you’) and keeping the focus on our own journey.
- Advice-giving, telling others what they should do, judging or commenting on what people say or cross talk, including directing comments to a group member, or using another participants name during share, are all strongly discouraged.
Different Meeting types are available throughout the week.
(Topic, Sexual Anorexia-Avoidance, Step Study, Healthy Intimate Relationships (HIR), Adult Children of Sex Addicts (ACSA) Meditation, and Support).
To join all COSA Zoom Room meetings (except HIR & ACSA meetings):
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Meeting ID: 457 778 6313
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Click here: https://www.zoom.us/join
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We do not send links or invites; Please use the above ID number
Topic Meetings : to Receive Weekly Meeting Topics Sign Up HERE
Sunday
- 70pm “SUNDAY SERENITY”
Newcomers welcome. Join us to start your week with ESH (Experience, Strength, & Hope)! Conference Approved Literature (CAL) based on the Step and Tradition of the month, along with other recovery topics, is shared.
7:30 PM US Eastern US, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
6:30 PM US Central
5:30 PM US Mountain
4:30 PM US Pacific
11:30 PM UTC
10:30 AM Sydney, Australia (next day/Monday)
12:30 PM Wellington,NZ (next day/Monday)
“Divorce Help & Hope Meeting”
This meeting has a focus for COSAs considering divorce, in the process of divorce, or divorced. Newcomers welcome.
3:00 PM US Eastern US, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
2:00 PM US Central
1:00 PM US Mountain
12:00 PM US Pacific
7:00 PM UTC
8:00 AM Wellington, NZ (next day/Monday)
Monday
*NEW* Mp3 Meeting
Newcomers welcome. This meeting broadcasts prior convention speakers, workshops and panelists who offer their experience, strength and hope. This meeting allows you to just listen wherever you are.
11:30 AM US Eastern US, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
10:30 AM Central
9:30 AM Mountain
8:30 AM PST
3:30 PM UTC
“Finding Life In Balance” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. This meeting uses “The Balance”, the bi-monthly COSA newsletter, focusing on the Step and Tradition of the month, and other recovery topics. Balance articles have been written by COSA members for over 25 years.
7:00 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
4:00 PM US Pacific
11:00 PM UTC
10:00 AM Sydney, Australia (next day/Tuesday)
12:00 PM NZ (next day/Tuesday)
Tuesday
Traditions Meeting
Newcomers welcome. This meeting studies the 12 Traditions of COSA.
12:00 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
11:00 AM US Central Time
10:00 AM US Mountain Time
9:00 AM US Pacific Time
4:00 PM London, UK / UTC
7:00 PM Helsinki, Finland / SAST
“Living The Literature” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. Topics come from the COSA literature. (Each week’s topic will be presented during the meeting. No purchase is necessary.)
2:00 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
1:00 PM US Central Time
12:00 PM US Mountain Time
11:00 AM US Pacific Time
6:00 PM London, UK / UTC
8:00 PM Helsinki, Finland / SAST
7:00 AM NZDT (next day/Wednesday)
Syracuse Meeting
Newcomers and all COSAs from outside the Syracuse area are welcome.
5:30 PM US Eastern
4:30 PM US Central
2:30 PM US Pacific
9:30 PM UTC
8:30 AM Sydney, Au (next day/Wednesday)
Wednesday
“Recovery“ Meeting
Newcomers welcome. Topic Meeting.
11:00 AM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
10:00 AM US Central
9:00 AM US Mountain
8:00 AM US Pacific
3:00 PM London / UTC / GMT
5:00 PM Helsinki, Finland /SAST
“Wednesday Warriors” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. This is a topic meeting based on the Steps, Traditions, Tools and ISO Conference Approved Literature.
8:30 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
7:30 PM US Central
6:30 PM US Mountain
5:30 PM US Pacific
11:30 AM Sydney, Australia (next day/Thursday)
1:30 PM Wellington, NZ (next day/Thursday)
Thursday
“Safe Haven” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. A recovery-focused safe haven of recovery.
3:00 PM US Eastern US, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
2:00 PM US Central
1:00 PM US Mountain
12:00 PM US Pacific
7:00 PM London / UTC / GMT
8:00 PM Paris & Vienna
9:00 PM Helsinki, Finland / SAST
8:00 PM Wellington, NZ (next day/Friday)
“Champions of Change Meeting”
Newcomers and COSAs from everywhere are welcome. Topic Meeting.
7:00 PM US Eastern
6:00 PM US Central
4:00 PM US Pacific
11:00 PM London / UTC / GMT
12:00 PM (next day/Friday) Wellington, NZ
10:00 AM (next day/Friday) Sydney, AU
Friday
“TGIF” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. Join us as we share our Experience, Strength, and Hope (ESH) on diverse topics from a variety of recovery resources.
2:00 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
1:00 PM US Central Time
12:00 PM US Mountain Time
11:00 AM US Pacific Time
5:00 PM Greenwich / Reykjavik, Iceland
6:00 PM London / UTC / GMT
7:00 PM Paris – Vienna – Switzerland
8:00 PM Helsinki, Finland / SAST
7:00 AM NZ (next day/Saturday)
Sexual Anorexia-Avoidance Meeting:
Monday
“Anorexia-Avoidance” Meeting
This meeting is open to those who have been affected by compulsive sexual behavior, focusing on the pain, anger, shame, and experiences of COSAs dealing with another’s sexual anorexia or the compulsive avoidance of sexual intimacy.
9:00 PM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
8:00 PM US Central
7:00 PM US Mountain
6:00 PM US Pacific
12:00 PM Sydney, Australia (next day/Tuesday)
2:00 PM Wellington, NZ (next day/Tuesday)
Sponsorship Meeting:
Wednesday
“Sponsor Check In” Meeting
Newcomers welcome. This meeting format provides an opportunity for COSAs who need a sponsor and COSAs who are willing to sponsor to meet and learn more about sponsorship.
7:30 PM Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
6:30 PM Central
5:30 PM Mountain
4:30 PM Pacific
10:30 AM Sydney, Australia (next day/Thursday)
12:30 PM NZ (next day/Thursday)
Healthy Intimate Relationships (HIR) Meetings:
Sunday
STEP-FOCUSED “HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS” (HIR)
Please note: HIR meetings meet in a different Zoom Room with a different Meeting ID: 566 056 0930
Contact for password and other information: sundaycosahir@gmail.com
This HIR (Healthy Intimate Relationships) meeting is a deeper study of how the Twelve Steps, Traditions, and Principles help us strengthen and improve our primary love relationships. Open to both COSAs and sex addicts with or without their partners, including newcomers. Closed to those who have not been affected by their own or another person’s compulsive sexual behavior.
12:00 pm US Eastern
11:00 am US Central
10:00 am US Mountain
9:00 am US Pacific
4:00 pm UTC / GMT
6:00 pm South Africa / SAST
Go to:
Enter Meeting ID: 566 056 0930 and the password.
Tuesday
“HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS” (HIR)
Please note: HIR meetings meet in a different Zoom Room with a different Meeting ID: 566 056 0930
Email hir.zoom@yahoo.com for the password.
HIR (or Healthy Intimate Relationships) is a style of blended meeting in which both COSAs and sex addicts are welcome to participate fully, with or without partners. This meeting uses the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of COSA to help us develop a greater capacity for empathy and emotional intimacy in our primary love relationships.
8:30 pm US Eastern
7:30 pm US Central
6:30 pm US Mountain
5:30 pm US Pacific
11:30 pm Sydney, Australia (next day/Wednesday)
1:30 pm Wellington, NZ (next day/Wednesday)
Go to:
Enter Meeting ID: 566 056 0930 and the password.
Thursday
“HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS”
Please note: HIR meetings meet in a different Zoom Room with a different Meeting ID: 566 056 0930
Email cosazoomroom@yahoo.com for password.
HIR (or Healthy Intimate Relationships) is a style of blended meeting in which both COSAs and sex addicts are welcome to participate fully, with or without partners. This meeting uses the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of COSA to help us develop a greater capacity for empathy and emotional intimacy in our primary love relationships.
11:30 PM US Eastern
10:30 PM US Central
9:30 PM US Mountain
8:30 PM US Pacific
2:30 PM Sydney, Australia (next day/Friday)
4:30 PM NZ (next day/Friday)
Go to:
Enter Meeting ID: 566 056 0930 and the password.
Saturday
“HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS”
Please note: HIR meetings meet in a different Zoom Room with a different Meeting ID: 566 056 0930
Email southbaycosahir@gmail.com for password.
HIR (or Healthy Intimate Relationships) is a style of blended meeting in which both COSAs and sex addicts are welcome to participate fully, with or without partners. This meeting uses the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of COSA to help us develop a greater capacity for empathy and emotional intimacy in our primary love relationships.
10:30 PM US Eastern
9:30 PM US Central
8:30 PM US Mountain
7:30 PM US Pacific
1:30 PM Sydney, Australia (next day/Sunday)
3:30 PM Wellington, NZ (next day/Sunday)
Go to:
Enter Meeting ID: 566 056 0930 and the password.
Adult Children of Sex Addicts (ACSA)
Tuesdays and Thursdays
4NEW! Adult Children of Sex Addicts Meeting
Please note: ACSA meetings meet in a different Zoom Room with a different Meeting ID: 566 056 0930
Email acsa.cosa@gmail.com for the password.
7:00 p.m. Eastern US, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
Please go to https://zoom.us/j/
Please go to https://zoom.us/j/
Step Study Meetings:
Tuesday
Tuesday Step Study (Meets in CZR2)
FULL and CLOSED to new members.
7:00 p.m. Eastern Time
6:00 p.m. Central
5:00 p.m. Mountain
4:00 p.m. Pacific
12:00 a.m. Midnight UTC
The goal is to complete the Steps in one year, finishing in March of 2024. The group will close to newcomers at a time specified by group conscience. To reserve a space in the group, contact cosazoomroom@yahoo.com for the form to join.
“Maintenance Meeting”
OPEN to all COSAs!
7:00 p.m. Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
6:00 p.m. Central
5:00 p.m. Mountain
4:00 p.m. Pacific
11:00 p.m. UTC / GMT / UK (will change to 12:00 midnight on March 26th)
Meeting ID: 457 778 6313
Password: email cosazoomroom@yahoo.com for the password
Wednesday
“Step Into Recovery”
This meeting is now FULL and CLOSED to new members of the group.
1:30 PM Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
12:30 PM Central
11:30 AM Mountain
10:30 AM Pacific
5:30 PM UTC / London, UK
7:30 PM Helsinki, Finland / SAST
Thursday
“Let’s Work It” Step Study Meeting – CLOSED to new members of the group
8:30 PM US Eastern
7:30 PM US Central
6:30 PM US Mountain
5:30 PM US Pacific
11:30 AM Sydney, Australia (next day/Friday)
1:30 PM NZ (next day/Friday)
Friday
“Morning Step Study” Meeting FULL – CLOSED to new members of the group
9:00 AM US Eastern, CAN, Trinidad/Tobago
8:00 AM US Central
7:00 AM US Mountain
6:00 AM US Pacific
1:00 PM GMT / UTC
Saturday
“Stepping Into Sanity” Step Meeting
OPEN to all COSAs willing to work Steps Ten, Eleven, Twelve, whether or not Steps One through Nine have been worked prior to attending.
1:30 – 2:45 PM Eastern
12:30 – 1:45 PM Central
11:30 AM – 12:45 PM Mountain
10:30 – 11:45 AM Pacific
COSA Diversity Statement
- COSA Diversity is consistent with the Third Tradition of COSA, which states that the only requirement for COSA membership is that our lives have been affected by compulsive sexual behavior.
- The COSA Fellowship welcomes all genders, all varieties of relationship to the addict, all religious and spiritual preferences, all employment statuses, all marital statuses, all ethnicities, cultures, and languages. COSA does not discriminate on the basis of class, financial status, sexual orientation or gender identification, physical or mental challenges, race, or national origins.
- In COSA, we find hope whether or not there is a sexually addicted person currently in our lives.
- COSA Diversity is consistent with the First Tradition of COSA, which states that our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon COSA unity.